We don’t see how we teach others to treat us by giving them too much or too early. Most people tell me they don’t need support in creating loving, trusting and lasting relationships.
#Effortless love series#
We complain how emotionally unavailable and uncommitted they are and don’t see how emotionally unavailable and uncommitted we are to ourselves.ĭo you feel like you’re betraying yourself for love? Join my short video series Break The Perfectionist Spell here. When we constantly think about our partners and how wrong they are, there is nobody here for us. Surely, coming from an abusive childhood with unavailable parents, I must be doomed. But here is a thing: the more I knew about narcissism, the more enraged and helpless I felt.
All the traits they talked about including gaslighting, flirting and lack of empathy was exactly what I was finding.
I used to watch so many youtube videos about narcissism and it had me furious and feeling totally screwed. We lose other relationships, money, and it costs us so much energy, health and sanity.īecause I’m a highly sensitive empath, I do tend to date men who seem to be on the narcissistic end. Then we waste our best years in compensation. We feel angry, hurt and we pretend we’ve got out shit together, which is, of course another technique get the other to give us what we want. We give and give and fail to notice that our investment in the relationship is not reciprocated by the other. We forget what it is that we truly desire. We jump into a relationship with a fantasy. OldlWhen we are hungry for love, connection and intimacy, we eat anything! We settle for anything and so immediately devalue ourselves.
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